Someone once told me you never really get over it, you just get better at dealing with it day by day.
I hate how people see everything that goes wrong in their lives, as either them being shitty people. If something bad happens, and it’s because of you, that doesn’t necessarily make you a bad person. It just means that you made a mistake. You need to grow from it, not let it control your life. Let things go. And just embrace the experience to make yourself a better person.